Here is where you will find everything you need to know about events at The Rabbit Hole. If you can't find the answer here, just reach out to us and we'll get you sorted.

I've never been to a swinger lifestyle event - help!

The best thing that you can do is come along to one of the Meet and Greet nights. You can check out the venue, ask any questions and meet the hosts. There is no play allowed on these nights so there is no need to feel anxious or pressured. It's also a great opportunity to make new friends, as regulars also attend to socialise with old and new friends alike.

What do I need to bring?

Bring your own alcohol, your preferred condoms and lube and any sex toys you might want to use. If you are planning on getting kinky, we have a dungeon, so bring your BDSM gear. We do have a few toys you can borrow to try out, or purchase if you'd prefer. Most importantly bring your manners and respect.

What do you supply?

Regular and large size condoms, lube, wipes. We have a large commercial refrigerator for your drinks. We supply water, soft drink, tea and coffee and finger food. We have a three quarter size billiard table and a TV you can see from the moon. We have lockers and a change room for you to get sexy. We have a huge spa in an outdoor enclosed area, towels supplied.

How much does it cost?

Different events cost different amounts. A regular party generally costs $100 per couple. Costs will be posted against each event and payment is cash only at the door.

Why do you need my ID?

ID is mandatory for single men who want to attend The Rabbit Hole, and is only required the first time you book in. We understand guests' need for privacy and discretion, and balance this with guests' security and peace of mind that if you've booked in that you are the people who show up. You will not need to provide it on subsequent visits. Rest assured your ID details are kept private and confidential. 

How do I book in and get notified of future events?

Events are posted on our events page, through Facebook and Twitter, as well as on AdultMatchMaker and RedHotPie. Subscribe to our site to be notified when events are listed. Please book in straight from the events page. Click on the event you're interested in, and fill in the form. 

What should I wear?

Dress to impress. Some nights will be themed, but if you think sexy, kinky or fetish, you're on the right track. The men seem to have more trouble with this than the ladies. Guys, if you're struggling, go with black pants and a pressed, collared shirt. No thongs, shorts and singlets, unless they are the sexy kind.

What should I expect?

Expect a fun, sexy environment. If you set your expectations at that level you will thoroughly enjoy your time at The Rabbit Hole. Remember that you are not paying for sex. There are many great establishments in Adelaide where you can access an excellent full service.

I don't have a partner, can I still attend?

The short answer is Yes. The slightly longer answer is usually, not always. We try to balance the number of Male and Female Swingles at each event with the number of couples. If you are a single male, you will need to attend an Information Session at The Rabbit Hole before you're invited to one of our play parties; unless you are attending as a friend of a couple who are known guests.

Can I stay overnight?

Not unless you want to scrape used condoms off the walls in the morning!

Can I take photographs?

Traditionally that answer would be a hard NO, however times have changed. We understand the desire to have cool photos, so if you want a photograph and everyone is consenting, ask one of the hosts to take it for you. We will make sure no one is inadvertently in the photo who does not want to be.

Are you a club?

No. The Rabbit Hole is set up in a private residence.

Where are you?

We are located just 10 minutes from the Adelaide CBD with plenty of parking nearby. There are a number of hotels within short driving distance, and we are also easily accessible via public transport.

The Rabbit Hole is an awesome venue. How much does it cost to hire?

Current Rates (from 8 June 2020)

Maximum 20 people at any one time. Deposit required to secure your booking.


Private Event Hire: Available on Fridays and Saturdays 8pm to 2am. Flat rate $650.


Bed and Breakfast Hire

Sundays to Thursdays: $300 per couple per night, $50 each additional person.

Check in from 5pm, check out 11am the next day.

*Available on Fridays and Saturdays only if TRH is not being used for a private event

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