Here is where you will find everything you need to know about events at The Rabbit Hole. If you can't find the answer here, just reach out to us and we'll get you sorted.

I've never been to a swinger lifestyle event - help!

The best thing that you can do is come along to one of the Meet and Greet nights. You can check out the venue, ask any questions and meet the hosts. There is no play allowed on these nights so there is no need to feel anxious or pressured. It's also a great opportunity to make new friends, as regulars also attend to socialise with old and new friends alike.

What should I wear?

Dress to impress. Think sexy, think classy and stylish, even sexy fetish! 

No T-shirts, no shorts, no ripped jeans, no sneakers, no sandals; unless they are of the sexy kind. Those who do not present well and who are not appropriately dressed will not be permitted entry.

The men seem to have more trouble with this than the ladies. Guys, if you're struggling, go with black pants and a pressed, collared shirt. Many specialty shops including our sponsor Adult Bliss Erotica stock a wonderful variety of sexy underwear suitable for dress down. 

What do I need to bring?

Bring your own alcohol, your preferred condoms and lube and any sex toys you might want to use. If you are planning on getting kinky, we have a dungeon, so bring your BDSM gear. We do have a few toys you can borrow to try out, or purchase if you'd prefer. Most importantly bring your manners and respect.

How much does it cost, and what is your cancellation policy?

Entry costs vary across different events, specifics are in the event description.

Some events are cash at the door, some events require a small online deposit, and some events require online prepay to secure your spot. Details will be in the confirmation email you will receive when you register. 

Cancellation Policy: If WE cancel the event, you are entitled to a refund of your payment. If YOU cancel, you are not entitled to a refund.

How do I book in and get notified of future events?

Some events are private events, some are open to everyone, and some events are members only. Please read event description of each event for details on how to attend. 

Events are posted on our events page, through Facebook and Twitter, as well as on AdultMatchMaker and Red Hot Pie. Subscribe to our site to be notified when events are listed. Please book in straight from the events page. Click on the event you're interested in, and fill in the form. 

Why do I have to be a member to book in?

For most events you will need to be a Member of The Rabbit Hole Parties website to book in. Membership is free but at our discretion as is ongoing membership. The Rabbit Hole is not the right fit for everyone and to ensure the sustainability of our events we need to maintain control over who attends. Single guys in the lifestyle have always had to deal with this. Present yourself well, be friendly, polite and respectful and you should be fine. 

How do I get an invitation as a single male?

First, you must attend An Information Night for Men (see Events page), before you are eligible to receive an invitation to any other event at The Rabbit Hole

You may also attend as a plus one of a couple, but you must arrive and leave together. 

We try to balance the number of Male and Female Swingles at each event with the number of couples.  

What is the age range of your guests?

The typical age demographic of our guests is late twenties to late fifties with some outliers either side. If you find yourself at either end of that spectrum then it can be harder to connect with others, but usually age isn't the barrier. If you look under 21, we will ask for your ID.

What do you supply?

Regular, large, and X-large condoms, lube, wipes, dams, gloves, sanitisers. Each room is well stocked with spare clean sheets and towels. We have a large commercial refrigerator for your drinks. We supply water, soft drink, tea and coffee and nibbles. We have a three quarter size billiard table and a TV you can see from the moon. We have lockers and a change room for you to get sexy. 

What should I expect?

Expect a fun, sexy, classy environment, in the company of interesting and like-minded guests, with friendly, experienced and professional hosts on hand. 

Can I stay overnight?

Not unless you want to scrape used condoms off the walls in the morning!

Can I take photographs?

Traditionally that answer would be a hard NO, however times have changed. We understand the desire to have cool photos, so if you want a photograph and everyone is consenting, ask one of the hosts to take it for you. We will make sure no one is inadvertently in the photo who does not want to be.

Are you a club?

No. The Rabbit Hole is set up in a private residence.

Where are you?

We are located just 10 minutes north-east of the Adelaide CBD with plenty of parking nearby. There are a number of hotels within short driving distance, we recommend The Highlander Hotel, The Walkers Arms Hotel, or somewhere in North Adelaide for more varied dining options close by. We are also easily accessible via public transport.

The Rabbit Hole is an awesome venue. How much does it cost to hire?

Please see Private Hire page for details. 

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