Here is where you will find everything you need to know about events at The Rabbit Hole. If you can't find the answer here, just reach out to us and we'll get you sorted.

I've never been to a swinger lifestyle event - help!

The best thing that you can do is come along to one of the Meet and Greet nights. You can check out the venue, ask any questions and meet the hosts. There is no play allowed on these nights so there is no need to feel anxious or pressured. It's also a great opportunity to make new friends, as regulars also attend to socialise with old and new friends alike.

What do I need to bring?

Bring your own alcohol, your preferred condoms and lube and any sex toys you might want to use. If you are planning on getting kinky, we have a dungeon, so bring your BDSM gear. We do have a few toys you can borrow to try out, or purchase if you'd prefer. Most importantly bring your manners and respect.

What do you supply?

Regular, large, and X-large condoms, lube, wipes, dental dams, gloves, sanitisers. We have a large commercial refrigerator for your drinks. We supply water, soft drink, tea and coffee and nibbles. We have a three quarter size billiard table and a TV you can see from the moon. We have lockers and a change room for you to get sexy. We have a huge spa in an outdoor enclosed area, towels supplied.

How much does it cost, and what is your cancellation policy?

Entry costs vary across different events, but in general it is $100 per couple, $50 single female, $100 single male. Payment is via a small online deposit to secure your spot, and the balance payable by cash at the door. Details will be in the confirmation email you will receive automatically when you register.

Cancellation Policy: If WE cancel the event, you are entitled to a refund of your deposit. If YOU cancel, you are not entitled to a refund. Secured spots are however transferable to other equivalent eligible guests, just let us know who is attending on the night.

How do I get an invitation as a single male?

First, you must attend An Information Night for Men (see Events page), before you are eligible to receive an invitation to any other event at The Rabbit Hole. Photo ID required. 

You may attend as a plus one of a couple, but you must arrive and leave together. 

We try to balance the number of Male and Female Swingles at each event with the number of couples.  

Why do you need my ID?

ID is mandatory for single men who want to attend The Rabbit Hole, and is only required the first time you book in. We understand guests' need for privacy and discretion, and balance this with guests' security and peace of mind that if you've booked in that you are the person who shows up. You will not need to provide it on subsequent visits. Rest assured your ID details are kept private and confidential. Please email to: events@therabbitholeparties.com, or text to 0420386776.

What is the age range of your guests?

This is one of the most common questions. The typical age demographic of our guests is late twenties to late fifties with some outliers either side. If you find yourself at either end of that spectrum then it can be harder to connect with others, but usually age isn't the barrier.

How do I book in and get notified of future events?

Events are posted on our events page, through Facebook and Twitter, as well as on AdultMatchMaker. Subscribe to our site to be notified when events are listed. Please book in straight from the events page. Click on the event you're interested in, and fill in the form. 

What should I wear?

Dress to impress. Some nights will be themed, but if you think sexy, kinky or fetish, you're on the right track. The men seem to have more trouble with this than the ladies. Guys, if you're struggling, go with black pants and a pressed, collared shirt. No thongs, shorts and singlets, unless they are the sexy kind.

What should I expect?

Expect a fun, sexy environment. If you set your expectations at that level you will thoroughly enjoy your time at The Rabbit Hole. Remember that you are not paying for sex. There are many great establishments in Adelaide where you can access an excellent full service.

Can I stay overnight?

Not unless you want to scrape used condoms off the walls in the morning!

Can I take photographs?

Traditionally that answer would be a hard NO, however times have changed. We understand the desire to have cool photos, so if you want a photograph and everyone is consenting, ask one of the hosts to take it for you. We will make sure no one is inadvertently in the photo who does not want to be.

Are you a club?

No. The Rabbit Hole is set up in a private residence.

Where are you?

We are located just 10 minutes north-east of the Adelaide CBD with plenty of parking nearby. There are a number of hotels within short driving distance, we recommend The Highlander Hotel, The Walkers Arms Hotel, or somewhere in North Adelaide for more varied dining options close by. We are also easily accessible via public transport.

The Rabbit Hole is an awesome venue. How much does it cost to hire?

Current Rates (from 25 August 2020) 

Deposit required to secure your booking.


Private Venue Hire: 6pm to 9am.

Fridays and Saturdays: $650 per night. Flat rate.

Sundays to Thursdays: from $300 per night.

The organiser of the private hire MUST collect and provide to us the names and contact details of everyone who attends the venue, for contact tracing if required.

Alice: "How long is forever? "

White Rabbit: "Sometimes, just one second"

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