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FAQ
Here is where you will find everything you need to know about events at The Rabbit Hole. If you can't find the answer here, just reach out to us and we'll get you sorted.

I've never been to a swinger lifestyle event - help!

The best thing that you can do is come along to a Meet and Greet event, which are held about every 5-6 weeks. You can check out the venue, meet the hosts, ask any questions. There is no play allowed on these nights so there is no need to feel anxious or pressured. It's also a great opportunity to make new friends, as regulars also attend to socialise with old and new friends alike.

Our blogs will give you some insight into what our community is about, so have a browse through. Our FAQ Beginner Guide to Swinging is a great place to start! 

What should I wear?

Dress to impress. Think sexy, think classy and stylish, even sexy fetish! 

No T-shirts, no shorts, no ripped jeans, no sneakers, no sandals; unless they are of the sexy kind. We are more like a fine dining restaurant, not a casual pub. Those who do not present well and who are not appropriately dressed will not be permitted entry.

Many specialty shops including our sponsor Adult Bliss Erotica stock a wonderful variety of sexy underwear suitable for dress down. 

What do I need to bring?

Bring your own alcohol, your preferred condoms and lube and any sex toys you might want to use. If you are planning on getting kinky, we have a dungeon, so bring your BDSM gear. We do have a few toys you can borrow to try out, if you do not have your own.

Most importantly bring your manners and respect.

How do I book in and get notified of future events?

Some events are private events, some are open to everyone, and some events are members only. Please read event description of each event for details on how to attend. 

Events are posted on our events page, on social media, as well as on AdultMatchMaker and Red Hot Pie. Subscribe to our site for our monthly newsletter to be delivered directly to your inbox. Make sure we are on your Safe Sender list.

You can book in straight from the Events page. Click on the event you're interested in, sign up for membership if you aren't yet a member. We will respond ASAP.

 If you are already a member, just log in to your account, and register for the event you're interested in.

Why do I have to be a member to book in?

For most events you will need to be a Member of The Rabbit Hole Parties website to book in. Membership is free but at our discretion as is ongoing membership. The Rabbit Hole is not the right fit for everyone and to ensure the sustainability of our events we need to maintain control over who attends.

If you are well-presented, fun, friendly, polite and respectful, you should fit in well.

How do I get an invitation as a single male?

First, you must attend An Information Night for Men (see Events page), before you are eligible to receive an invitation to any other event at The Rabbit Hole

You may also attend as a plus one of a couple, but you must arrive and leave together. 

We try to maintain a balanced ratio of genders at all our events; unless we are hosting a specifically gendered party of course. 

What is the age range of your guests?

The typical age demographic of our guests is mid twenties to late fifties with some outliers either side. If you find yourself at either end of that spectrum then it can be harder to connect with others, but usually age isn't the barrier. If you look under 21, we will ask for your ID.

What do you supply?

Regular, large, and X-large latex condoms, dams, lube, wipes. Each room is well stocked with spare clean sheets and towels. We supply water, soft drink, tea and coffee and nibbles. We have a large commercial fridge for your own drinks. Glasses and ice available.

We have plenty of lockers for your valuables in a cosy change room. And plenty of fun adult  toys for you to play with: Pool table, pole dance pole, sex swings and massage tables to name a few. Check out our gallery and follow us on social media, we are often adding or changing things, or doing something interesting!

What should I expect?

Expect a fun, sexy, classy environment, in the company of interesting and like-minded guests, with friendly, experienced and professional hosts on hand. 

What do I do if I feel uncomfortable?

We strongly encourage everyone to read our Consent is Sexy blog. This gives a clear guide on what our expectations are, and therefore what yours should be. No one should ever feel like they have to do anything they don't want to.

Easily identifiable staff members are always on hand to help with any concerns. We are friendly and approachable, respectful and professional.

Can I take photographs?

Traditionally that answer would be a hard NO, however times have changed. We understand the desire to have cool photos, so if you want a photograph and everyone is consenting, ask one of the hosts to take it for you. We will make sure no one is inadvertently in the photo who does not want to be.

Are you a club?

No. The Rabbit Hole is set up in a private residence.

Where are you?

We are located about 10 minutes north-east of the Adelaide CBD with plenty of designated parking nearby. There are a number of hotels within short driving distance, we recommend The Highlander Hotel, The Walkers Arms Hotel, or somewhere in North Adelaide for more varied dining options close by.

Alice: "How long is forever? "

White Rabbit: "Sometimes, just one second"

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